Thanks to everyone for your suggestions and feedback.
I'm a bit calmer now. Can't control everything.
Tonight I miss H and feel lonely again. Darn it. But, I will get through it. I had a nice day despite all the frustration. The girls and I went to Hobby Lobby and came home and painted tons of gravestones and heads to put on spikes! Good, wholesome family fun!!
Had a couple good responses to my Dinner Etiquette Workshop for Kids.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson