You sound good and decided. Good luck today with your talk. Just one thing to keep in mind - he might not like the visitation schedule you have planned. The logical thing would be for him to want more time.
If so, are you willing to compromise and have him take the kids to his place more often? I am all for you setting healthy boundaries for you, but at the same time, I am for being fair and thinking about how the kids need him as well.
I would recommend that no matter what, you listen to him and perhaps sit on what he has to say for a while and then get back to him at a later time if need be.
I like what Regretful said - assertiveness vs. aggressiveness!
You will do great!
(((vero)))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
