Hi all, not posted for a long time now, but still keep a eye on developments on these boards. I never really felt as if I was able to give good advice but I received and read a whole lot of sound guidance from you people.
So, time for a brief update.
Just discovered that W & OM are now engaged!!!! Quite astonished to be honest, with some amusement and also a little sadness ( for her, not us ) mixed in.
I suspect that the OM did the proposing, a desperation measure I think. The kids think the guy is a fatuous jerk ha ha.
Recent comments from W indicate that the honeymoon period is long since gone and that things aren't quite so hunky dory from her perspective.
Really have no idea where her head is at right now.
She doesn't know that I know about this and i'm certainly not going to tell her that I do. Just going to watch from the sidelines and see what happens.
I still love the woman so I will step-in if I think that she's going to crash & burn but as far as 'us' is concerned, that option is no longer an option. I'm just too damned happy with my life to want to change it.
FF
Me 48 W 49 D19, S17, D14 Together 25yr, Married 22yr Me checked-out July 10, back Sept 10 W checked out Nov 10 Separated Dec 10 ILYBNILWY 2nd Apr 11 We're finished + D bomb 17th Apr 11
