That's because his emotions are in full control. He's picturing a fantasy world where he has all the time in the world to spend bonding with the kids through various exciting activities, plus he'll have women swooning at his feet, he'll be a multi-millionaire and unicorns will fly through the sky pooping rainbow Skittles.
I love some of your posts. You sure have a way with words... and they're meaningful.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done