Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
Yeah, we all go through that. We wonder if it's worth it. I think there comes a time for all of us when we get over the emotional sting of the bomb drop and then we start remembering our spouses are not perfect either. We start taking stock of all their faults and then asking ourselves if standing is really worth it. For some it's worth waiting indefinitely, for some it's only worth a few months of their time, and for others it's not worth any effort at all. There is no right or wrong in this, you have to search your heart and decide what's best for yourself.


Very profound and very true.I have been up and down and never once given up hope or felt that the love was fleeting. I'd like to think I am in it for the long haul but understand why others eventually see a different path.

I always appreciate your thoughtfulness AnotherStander.


M:44
W:41
M: 12 yrs
W's EA began 3/12
Somewhere between WAW and MLC
Still in same house