Is It really Worth it?

[littleGTO]

Ready2Quit,
My H hasn't yet moved out (but will in less than 2 wks), but I am quite sure that in order for him to move back I will also expect him to have NC w OW.

If he's not willing to do that, then I think that shows he has not yet recommitted to making your M work.

If you don't let him know (lovingly, but firmly) your expectations then you may regret it if/when he moves back in, b/c that may not be clear to HIM what you expect regarding OW.

After you discuss your conditions w him, he may need time to process your requests OR he may have already recognized that these things are ESSENTIAL to making your M work.