Originally Posted By: Tessa2012
How come whenever things seem to go well...H has to throw in a snide comment.


Because he's afraid you might get the "wrong" impression. If he feels some closeness building, he'll push back now and then.

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"Lets hurry up and seperate so that I can get my new bike." and he showed me a pic.


What an idiotic thing to say/ do!

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I responded that it was pretty and I didn't appreciate the comment.


Good response! You kept your cool and didn't escalate it, but let him know you were hurt.

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I took the high road and thanked him for his apology, told him it meant a lot to me and that I appreciated it.


Great response! Most people would respond "it's nothing" or "don't worry about it", but your response is much better because you thanked him and and accepted the apology without minimizing the hurt he caused.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57