Just checking in. I advertised my Dining Etiquette Workshops for Kids this morning. I have an unexpected free day so I'm feeling some relief from the daily grind. Getting quite a bit done this morning.
Haven't texted. Haven't heard anything. Last night was tough, but I feel better today. Could really use a break from D10.
I will keep the book. I'm just having a hard time with the concept that he is "in love" with someone else, at least for now. Still, I know he's more in love with the Responsibility-Free lifestyle, full of booze and pot than the actual woman.
I completely agree on the author's take on affairs--just wish my H was as smart. Can't help but see so much of this as just plain stupid. He wanted continue MC but still see the OW? Huh? How does someone get so delusional? And dumb?
I've had the occasional thought lately about how he is dealing with taking the OW somewhere other than a bar. H is fairly easily embarrassed in places where image is important. He was raised on ski trips and upper middle class affluence. His dad was a judge. So, I'm wondering how it is taking her out in public? She is covered in tattoos and earrings and piercings and looks a bit greasy all the time. I think chronic pot users have some hygiene issues. Anyway, I KNOW it's not my business and I shouldn't dwell on it but it makes ME FEEL BETTER--so I'll take it.
The governor was invited to our wedding for Pete's sake! The whole thing certainly fits with the unresolved parental issues. His parents couldn't be more mortified if he ran naked through Public Square.
He has always felt inadequate where both our parents are concerned. Didn't finish college, the family screw up, yadda, yadda, yadda...
One Day At a Time.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
