month 4

[Beardown]

Hi Carnac,
Thinking of the advice you gave me your business ventures as of right now have no baring on what she thinks. You are moving forward and if this would be beneficial to you why should she know at this time. This would file under GAL right? As far as the gift for your anniversary I can only share my anniversary story from this past July. I had to pick my S up from the house that day and she never mentioned it. As I was leaving I look at her and said Happy Anniversary. Her only response was oh yea and walked away. I am a supporter of gifts especially something you know she mentioned but be careful of the pain you may feel if she gives you the oh yea treatment because it was worse than a slap in the face. I also feel for you with your S. I missed two nights of my sons life until the S. It kills me that she has taken half his life away from me. Makes you wonder how easily she could accept losing her child half if not more than half the time. Unfortunately I don't think they have thought about that. They are so focused on the moment. I'm curious, I feel like my W is in the midst of a MLC as well. What signs point to you thinking that your W is in one. I would be curious to see the similarities. Hang in there! Patience is not easy I know!