A few years ago my mother was very ill and died. It was her time. We had a, shall we say complicated, sometimes painful R.
Doesn't mean I didn't grieve her passing. Black and white thinking causes us to look at things as either all bad or all good. Life is not like that, we can hold 2 conflicting emotions with neither of them being right or wrong. There is a middle-ground.
Search for the middle ground.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss