Rough: Thanks for the comment, I don't see it so much as looking for her approval as keeping her informed. And as far as the anniversary gift goes....im not 100% intent on giving it to her right now, but you hit it on the head, the apartment thing and the gift are both 180's for me. Not necessarily that I didnt give her gifts before b/c I absolutely love giving gifts to others, but more about its something she mentioned a good while ago and would show her that I actually do not only listen to her, but care about what matters to her.