Thoughts....If my H want to come home, should I "impose" stipulations on him about the OW? I guess what I mean is, Should I tell him to block her on FB and show me, give me all his passwords to his accounts, let me see his phone bill with numbers of who he has called and texted? He would play the game "draw something" on his phone with her, should I tell him to delete it? How much is going to far with my "demands"? Do I tell him this is what I would like for you to do, but I am not going to force you to do this to come home?
He has left before and when I asked him about this stuff he said he would do it, but never did, that is how they communicate. But since this time he has been gone for over 2 months and I feel like if he wants to come home this time, he must really want to come home and not be with her because now is the time to make that decision. I am just not sure how to really believe him without checking up on him all the time, but then again what happens if I find something, that is why he left two months ago. I don't want this OW to run my life by me always thinking about her and what "might" be going on if he comes home. I want to stop this crazy ride and live my life with my H without OW, but how?
M-47, H-46 M24, T29 S19, S17 OW since 2007 Fighting ever since H left 8/12 H home 11/12 still seeing OW
