I do believe this: for people who wonder if they are doing the right thing by standing: you are. You will be able to say you gave it 100% and know you did your best, regardless of the outcome.
Forward, you encouraged me some time back that I wouldn't regret "standing" and fighting for my marriage. Thank you. It has only been 7 months and my W and I are in my opinion becoming "friends" again. I wholeheartedly agree with your statement above that regardless of the outcome you will never regret giving 100%.
I would rather feel pain then never feel at all... Separated 3/2012 T 34 yrs M 27 yrs