Snodderly, look what you have done to my thread! Lol.

Had a brief phone call yesterday evening. H confirmed safe arrival, asked me to email him a couple of phone numbers. I thanked him for letting me know he made it safely and said I would send the numbers.

S19 asked about H's trip, how long he would be gone. I honestly answered that I didn't know. S19 wanted to know why I didn't know - I told him it was because I hadn't asked. There was a bit of a frown, a comment on how S19 thought that was weird and then S19 reasoned H would probably be home by Sunday for football. That ended the discussion, the other kids had no questions beyond "Where's Dad?"

I took yesterday "off" from constructive behavior, yes I was a bum. smile Today I am making a to do list and have a soccer game to attend smile smile

Let's see what the universe has in store for today!

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.