Sounds like you are continuing to move in a positie direction and are seeing the nice things your H is doing for you.
I think it is probably good to continue to try to not snoop for now. The few weeks that I was doing it were the worst during this time. Now that I've stopped, I can get back to my PMA and trying to learn to trust H again. I've also released a lot of anxiety.
Just remember that you may still have a few backslides, so be prepared and don't let it undo any of your good work if it does happen. Especially if he turns you down on the birthday dinner offer.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
