Hi Greymeadow, Sorry to read about your situation. Just a quick reply regarding Snodderly’s Quote: The gifting is guilt. She's trying to find a way to make herself feel better about the affair. Many of them do this.
About a month after my Ex W had moved in with the OM. She bought 4 candy bars and attached them to 2 of my daughters bikes that used to be parked at the hotel where ex wife worked. (the bikes were parked there for safe keeping while they caught the college bus). So I asked ‘why 4 candy bars’ (with only 3 children) in a text to her, her reply; ‘I didn’t want to miss you out.’ WTF = her guilt. 2 months later she paid a fairly large monthly paper bill that was mine to pay. I said (text) ‘I’ll pay you back.’ ‘She said its O K’. Again she paid because of her guilt.
