I Was also only 16 when I started dating H, I'm going on 30 now and boy, is it hard! I'm hoping not knowing will help with detaching. My H is also in another city. Like three hours away. I deactivated my Facebook because I couldn't handle knowing how "well" he is doing without me. Well that was one of my reasons anyway.
I'm thinking she is obviously also confused. Sounds like she was Jelious when the two cute girls came near you!
Yeah I get you, we've evolved so much during these years and shared so much with our partners.
No contact yesterday although I noticed she shared a link on fb to a typical heartbroken song. Don't mind read, don't mind read I tell myself and then I mind read some more.
Today we are going to an arragnement with S for a couple of hours. Lets see how that goes. I feel I need a couple days this week with no contact, to reflect for myself, we will see.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
