Hi Sweetbriar,
God I identified so much with your sitch because I was 8mos preg when I found out about the affair. I think back at my delivery and the days that followed and I just get depressed all over again.

I commend you on NC! This is something I am still struggling with and it's been over a year! I wish I had done it a lot sooner however I flip flopped a lot!

Stay focused on your journey. Stick to your boundaries. They are there to help you. I pray to God, help me take care of myself so I may take care of my children. It helped.

I wish you all the best. Take very good care of yourself. We are all here to help.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017