So, who are you apart from the 'wife' and the 'mother?' Guess what? This is your shot to find out and it's tough work and the best work. You have no idea what and who you are going to find along your path. Be open for the amazing new life that awaits you and try not to get sucked down into the "what ifs" and "shoulda, coulda, woulda" because they will get you NOWHERE! There is no "what if" only "what is."
Hang in there....big hug!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10