Ok Carnac, As usual, your post hit home. Easier said than done but you know how it goes bro. You can’t barrow tomorrows problems! It’s a daily struggle though, I get that. I think it’s a natural reaction to want to “borrow the problems.” We have enough hurdles going on, lets try our best not to add another to the mix. I am not saying it’s not a valid concern, it is, but let’s try our best not to focus on that. Here's one of many things I’ve learned from my thread.
My W left me. My family’s not intact. My W’s cheated. I may never get my W back. I won’t ever find someone like my W. I feel nobody will love me again.
Seriously, you know how it works!!! You hear it enough and you start to believe it, come on brother. Everything I just mentioned su!ck but I am alive, I am not dead, I will be fine and so will you!!!! We are resilient people. Regardless of what happens, WE WILL be better, not bitter. I believe in hope and I am a realist. We've been going down this path together, since the beginning. I TRULY feel you have a fighting chance at this one, stay the course. We will be fine. For real.
