Oh Lord....I've gone out on way over 50 coffee dates! I put on my profile I was seeking a relationship and not just dating to date. He was the one who pursued me and I simply responded. When he backed away (from fear) I called him on it (lovingly) and I guess he didn't like that. I want a MAN; not a little boy who runs at the first sign of closeness.

Look, we all have a component of fear about us. BUT, I choose love over fear any day.
I've met a few men ready for a R, but I just wasn't attracted. He'll find me...


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B