Oh Lord....I've gone out on way over 50 coffee dates! I put on my profile I was seeking a relationship and not just dating to date. He was the one who pursued me and I simply responded. When he backed away (from fear) I called him on it (lovingly) and I guess he didn't like that. I want a MAN; not a little boy who runs at the first sign of closeness.
Look, we all have a component of fear about us. BUT, I choose love over fear any day. I've met a few men ready for a R, but I just wasn't attracted. He'll find me...
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10