i text him early on in the day..."busy"....he text back in a sales meeting....i did not respond back. He is under so much stress. He called three hours later and asked if i got my car tag done and i said no. Then asked where i was...told him i was in the hospital....silence....he asked what was going on.....told him.....he said he was shutting the computer down and would come over. He gets here we small talk about what is going on....and then tells me i am being selfish for not telling him sooner.....I said text you earlier to talk, and you were busy. He said he feels like the bad person and then says " regardless of what happens he still cares about me " .....well thanks a whole lot I am thinking. stayed awhile then went home to let the dog out. Came back, which I honestly told him he didn't have to. And I really meant it. But he showed up anyways. Stayed for about an hour and left. He just called to make sure I got my medicine and to let me know our dog left him a surprise. I laughed. Asked if he ate....and told him to go to bed......