One other thing turtle. I think most of this thread applies regardless if you’re a man or women, which has me thinking about something else. 25 shared an interesting piece of information with me. Well, it’s all interesting but you get my point. Generally speaking, there’s several common denominators that we look for in our husband or wife. Men look for a good looking W and a woman that won’t rock the boat (keeps the peace in the house). Women look for a man that provides security, both financial and physical, women are security seeking creatures. Trust is also huge on her list. I know I am coming out of right field but that's my 2 cents.