Not sure where I belong...STBX has regrets.

[Shelby]

I always thought/knew he would have regrets, but after 2 years I gave up thinking he would actually come to me and tell me and admit he had regrets and wanted to come back.

I was surprised when I got that message that he had regrets and wanted his family back. After 2 years I gave up thinking it would come. After 2 years I was finally getting ready to put myself out there to date.

Now I know I've changed in those 2 years. I've worked on myself. I've GAL. I've been seeing a therapist. I'm more confident.

He might not even like the new me.

Some people might think I am crazy to even consider letting him back. But if I can see he really wants this and is willing to work on US then I am willing to see where this could go. I still have hope !

In those 2 years he never pushed the divorce to be final. Not sure why since that is what he wanted at the time.