My opinion (and it is only opinion) is that couple's therapy is pointless in an MLC type situation. The reason I think that is that the MLCer is often facing a personal internal battle. They are trying to find themselves. Or they are desperately trying to run away from who they think they've been. Or a variety of issues. Bottom line is, they are not a "whole" person. They are not a mentally healthy person. And a broken person cannot even start to contemplate the complexities of a relationship. So while I realize you are doing what you can to fix your issues, I fear that it will be for naught. I went through the same thing and think it actually only made things worse.
I think this is incredibly wise and it has been my experience too. Thanks A.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
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