Snodderly (and some updates)~ I had a really good weekend, exhausting! But good. My friend's surgery went well, unfortunately they did find she has endometriosis, so that svcks. I've been texting her all weekend, checking in on her, she seems to be following doctors orders, plans on coming back to work tomorrow, that makes me nervous, I'm afraid she's going to try and over do it.
My other friend and I ended up not doing a haunted attraction, we both had worked longer than anticipated and we really didn't want to be in a car that long. We decided to watch scary movies at my house and ordered some pizza.
I've decided H's just crazy. Plain and simple. I asked him about the beard, just curious as to what he would say. He asked if I liked it, I said it's interesting (not a lie,I really don't care for it). He went on to say I figured I'm 36 and never had one I should try it now. I think I said ok, I was really distracted by trying NOT to laugh..... Cause I was thinking.... yeah.... that's the way to look younger...a beard...everyone knows that...LMAO!
Sunday evening when he got home he reminded me the walking Dead was on if I wanted to watch it. I thanked him and said I would be out when it comes on. I was texting a couple of friends because well, the beard thing was just too funny NOT to share! I was literally laughing out loud during some of the texts. H comes back munching on some potato chips, looks at me with a slightly confused look and says, "Everything ok back here?" I said "yeah, why wouldn't it be?" He simply says, "uncontrollable laughter." I said, " Aren't I allowed to laugh uncontrollably?" (as I'm still laughing a bit). He looked annoyed mumbled what I think was an okkkk and walked away.
We watched the show together and then both went to bed. I couldn't get to sleep so I went back out into the living room and started watching Once Upon a Time on Netflix (a couple of friends got me hooked on that show). A few minutes later H emerges from his room. I heard him go to the bathroom and then I could feel him standing behind me. I didn't really look up until he moved beside me and asked about what I was watching. I paused it and explained a bit of the back story. He said I guess I will watch too, and sat down on the couch next to me!!!! I thought I would die of shock, mind you this is after 10:30PM. I just said ok and asked if he would like me to start at the first episode, he said no it was fine. After the episode he even said he had enjoyed the show.
When I saw him tonight, I asked him about getting my car inspected because I'm running out of time and I work Saturdays. He gave me some suggestions and then said slightly annoyed "to let him know if he has to re-arrange his schedule". He apparently has plans but no match, that's all the info he would give me. That's considerably more info that I've had in months though....
IDK, like I said, crazy. I also find it interesting how every group of people he's with sees a different act, all nicey nicey to the co-workers, then tells the shooting buddy he can't stand the co-workers, and Lord only knows what he says to the family. I'm sure I'm the only one who sees the mess he truly is inside...
On a different note, I talked to my FIL finally this weekend, his gf left him and he's been in and out of the hospital. He's also quite depressed, and talking about moving back closer to his home town (closer to us). I told him that sounded like an excellent idea. Probably will help with his depression. None of his kids have gotten their heads out of their own asses and called him yet, but I keep praying for that day to come, because he's not doing so great.
Lisa.7~ Thank You!!!
T~ Hey stranger! I always appreciate your input too, but I would hope you would know that by now. LOL Yes, who knows indeed! I figure communicating is good, but the secret life is still there and that hurts.... like you said before, it's the emotional.... boy does that take it's toll!
GALbaby~ Thank you so much! Sometimes I wonder if what I am saying to him he is hearing, or makes an impact. I just keep believing it's getting stuck in there somewhere and the seeds will sprout and grow! Well my counselor things I'm making progress *shrugs* who knows, I guess time will tell.
I've been texting her all weekend, checking in on her, she seems to be following doctors orders, plans on coming back to work tomorrow, that makes me nervous, I'm afraid she's going to try and over do it. 
