SG I hear you on not being on here all the time. I'm on my way to my sons soccer game but I want to recommend you look for bustorama and his story its very similar to yours. Kind of a long read but well worth it.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out