The point is not to put up a FACADE. The point is not to CLAIM to be going out. The point is to GO OUT and to DO YOUR OWN THING. This is often very hard for people to grasp. You have to take a hard look at yourself and work on yourself and actually start to live FOR YOURSELF.
I hear what you are saying - its not that it is hard to grasp, its that it is hard to do. I'm just not there yet. I honestly feel like I'm doing well on the days where I get out of bed and eat something but I'm assuming that isn't news I want getting back to my wife. I tried to go out once last week but I live in a small town and after being asked "where is your wife" five times, I ran home and curled up in a ball. I will get there but it will take time.
