Thanks Wendylon for dropping by.
I did "engineer" it a little. I hope you will forgive me but I am leaned back now. I have realised tonight that I "help" things w hooks as I don't trust his feelings for me. Still more inner work for me to do re abandonment.

Yes, H was very positive about job and I have just read his email. It said "Wow! That job is perfect for you. It has everything you love all rolled into one :)" So not only did he recognise my skills in the phonecall but he truly knows what I am passionate about and what does it for me in a job. I'm not sure I know him so well...