Nothing against London or you, but that's where my nightmare began. I still remember sitting outside Westminster Abby praying right after I found out about H affair.
I'm so sorry, TJP, that London has become tainted with your nightmare. I think it's inevitable and maybe one day that association will fade or be replaced with another one. I was at Westminster Abbey recently because my D15 is applying to go to sixth form there. I was moved by how beautiful it was.
One thing that really strikes me in your sitch is the lovely relationship you have with both your Ds. To me it shows lots of emotional intelligence on your part and makes me think that you'll be/already are a great DBer and that you will come through stronger no matter what happens with your H. You and your daughters are very lucky to have each other.
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012
