SG you're welcome and I plan on sticking around I'm sure I'll need some support. I feel at peace with my decision. I've just come to the conclusion that my W can live in this limbo forever and I can't. I made mistakes but she just can't let go of the past and I can't make her let go. I plan on going Friday to file but I'll still be here. Thx for checking in.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out