Originally Posted By: TJP
AnotherStander...I have read some of your other posts. You are very kind and supportive. It's hard to believe you are where you are mentally after just a short time. I can admire your attitude about your situation.


Thank you, you are too kind smile It's been a rough road for sure, but my W has been pretty low energy about it so that has made it easier to deal with I think. My heart goes out to those like you who are dealing with MLC/ personality transplants/ monsters, it's difficult enough without having to go through that too.

Originally Posted By: TJP
What am I supposed to do when my H, who left, won't talk to me? I haven't heard from him in weeks, other than money talk. He emails our Ds.


Unfortunately that's often part of it, MLCers will go great lengths of time with no contact. The only thing you can work on is yourself. Learn to be content/ happy without your H. Once you accept that he won't be contacting you then it's not as stressful wondering why you're not hearing from him.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57