A good book for you to pick up would be "codependant no more". I think you will find that this book will show you things about the dynamics in your R that you need to really see.
Rick - thanks for chiming in. I am sure you can help AA, especially with GAL ideas
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
