When I was a WAW and my H would show any excitement or "happiness", I would quickly remind him (with my behavior) that I was not happy and things were a long way from being back to normal. I did not want him getting his hopes up that the MR was fixed.
Maybe what you are calling support...is coming across to her as you thinking the R is back to normal. I realize this sounds crazy to a normal thinking human-being, but she's not normal.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
