He was the same person who I was married to just with " no attachment" to me.
Really? He's the same person? What caused him to leave then?
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I honestly think that if we go through Christmas, new years and his Birthday separated, then I will give up.
Don't get me wrong - I am very pro marriage. But at this point what I see is that he has all the control over you and you let him. Reality is, you give him the control. You are still in shock to some degree. I know that feeling. It [censored].
Here's my thought. So far he is in control and he has left you. You are following him (emotionally) like a puppy dog hoping to be pet. He has no fear of losing you and feels in control. Very liberating to some people.
What happens if you were to leave him? Shut off communications with him or delay them? Not hang on his every word? Then what happens?
I'm not suggesting being mean. I'm not suggesting being rude or angry. I'm suggesting breaking all ties with him and keeping anything else to just business. Before you tear yourself to pieces worrying about somebody who left.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
