Golfgirl. It is about the numbers. this one guy I know when on dozens of dates until he found someone he liked and eventually married. Guys don't want to be told on the 1st or 2nd date that they want a R. Especially if they have been divorced. It is scary. Date lots of people the right one will come along when you least expect it. And patience is paramount. Guys don't like a women that looks or acts desperate to be with someone. my 2cents


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden