Turtle,

My oldest started kindergarten this year and so far he is doing well in school. In the last couple of weeks he has had a couple of issues at home and my w is well aware of it. The only thing I can say is I don't recommend putting the blame on the WAS. They see it too and and they will have to deal with their actions. They need time and space. All you can do is love your children more than ever. Yours are old enough to be able to express their feelings and I would encourage them to do that with you and your h. Right now that is your connection to your h. Use that to your benefit rather than driving the wedge between the two of you even deeper.


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on