Anyone with school-aged children...? Have any of you seen or heard from your children's teachers about differences they've noticed at school? Or, at home?

My middle S is really taking a backslide in school even though it's only been 9 weeks. He already sees the GC at school but he is hypersensitive and has been shutting down academically, behaviorally difficult and has no interest in school at all.

My H doesn't think it has to do w our sitch. I beg to differ- at least in part. (We don't fight AT ALL at home, but from time to time my kids see me get emotionally upset and KNOW it's b/c of "daddys' problems."

I don't think it is possible to love your children TOO much. We are planning to tell them that their dad is moving out this weekend and I am SOOO concerned what impact this will have on him (and his brothers as well).

I am so sad for them...for our family...for me.

I want to be strong, but...


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.