About to separate....

[dorightman]

Thank you AnotherStander! Your advice is well taken! I will try again, but this time with more love and compassion. I think I'm getting confused by all of the advice I've been getting from my friends and I really need to concentrate on my core feelings. Sometimes it's easy to get caught up with what people tell you based on their experience, which is valid for them, but not for your particular sitch. Also, it's Very challenging to be compassionate with a waw who consistently undermines you by telling you she wants a D or S. I guess thats where detaching is helpful.