Today, I ended up talking with H about our Sunday evenings. I said it didn't work for me to go out for supper with him after he'd been drinking--which happens most Sundays. He listened and said he was having a rethink about alcohol and might start some new rules (alcohol only with food and socially). We'll see. I thanked him for listening calmly. Next time we go out ( in two weeks), he agreed that he'd have a couple of glasses with supper as opposed to drinking before we go out, on an empty stomach.
He then came running after me to say that he'd emailed S17 (who was in the house at the time) about the two of them going out for supper tonight so they could talk. I'm not sure S17 will knuckle down but nice that H plans on following through
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012
