"Okay so you want a kick start…here goes. (Note: what you put in to YOU is what you will be out – so you give half ass effort…you end up with a half a** AA)."
In research they termed this^^^GIGO> Garbage in garbage out.... Eric asked that I check your thread. As a Latino myself I know how that pride can mess with you. Put it aside for now...It will not help you.
The more you focus on her the more difficult this will be. So its time to just think about you besides two broken people can't repair a M.
The fears you have are normal. I'm 16 months into this, divorced and exw is moving out this week. I have those fears and that is all they are. Those fears are the things you tell yourself, many of those thoughts are irrational. Challenge them by asking yourself "what's the worse that can happen" if this or the other occurs.
Someone early on told me to "drop the gun". Didn't know what tha hell that meant. To me it started to make sense. It meant to stop fighting and controlling the sitch. I started to tell myself this "It is what it is and it will all work out". So far it has.
GAL buddy and do it hard, let the unoverse take care of you. Let go.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
