I was reading the definition of it and found it a little complicated.
Can someone give examples of cognitive dissonance?
As I understand cognitive dissonance would refer to two (or more) conflicting sets of thoughts/emotions at the same time. An MLCer may simultaneously tell the LBS they want nothing to do with them/ don't love them/ have an other m/w yet continue to expect marital harmony or relations. It is how they "cake eat" and do not at all see their hypocrisy.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
