Man, our stories are different but I so understand how you feel about it's so weird after being together since teenagers... I do feel it's getting a bit easier too as time goes by, but I still miss my H... it's such a complicated feeling. I really am confused myself. But advices people give here are so helpful! keep journaling, I'm kinda jealous that your W and you have communications along the way. I don't know what my H is doing at all and he's living in another city...
Yeah moving on I guess is a two fold feeling. The feeling of being happy things are getting better, but at the same time wishing one wouldn't have to move on. Journaling helps for sure, and probably makes it a bit easier on friends.
I'm happy we comms and manage to keep things in order for our S, but it demands work. Being in communication means learning things about her I would rather not know, that makes it hard to keep things in a good tone. But here's hoping..
Probably isn't much easier being in the dark like you are with H, wanting to know is in our nature. More so when it's someone we care about. I will stop by your thread and give it a read. Hang in there
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
I do feel it's getting a bit easier too as time goes by, but I still miss my H... it's such a complicated feeling. I really am confused myself. But advices people give here are so helpful! keep journaling, I'm kinda jealous that your W and you have communications along the way. I don't know what my H is doing at all and he's living in another city... 
