25mlc, thank you for that post. I just logged on the board about to journal on some of the very points you mention. thank you for all of the time and detail you put into your posts. They have helped me along the way so very much.

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TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home