Originally Posted By: Shelby
I know, Lisa.7, me either. So confused. He says the right things. He even cried Friday, saying how he wanted us back, how me made mistakes. I turn him down for sex and he withdraws again.

By the way the sex would have been at his parents house, who are away. Can we say tacky. We aren't teenagers any more. Take me out first. We haven't even had a "date" or anything yet.

Jeez the more I think about the more I wonder about all of this.


I think you're on the right track, you don't go from separation to hopping in the sack to cure everything. I would suggest to him that you need to go out a few times to get to know each other again. If he doesn't find that acceptable then his motives are questionable.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57