From what I have witnessed with my H, it is not so much that they fall out of love with us, but that they fall out of love with themselves.
Oh they will say it is us, especially in the time following the bomb. But when you see that mask start to slip (as Cadet and Snodderly have described), you see a self-loathing that is quite hard to comprehend. I wouldn't have believed it, till I saw it with my own eyes.
How can they love anyone when they can't even love themselves?
It is never a bad thing to love unconditionally and be able to find forgiveness in your heart. We may be hurt, but we can still be whole. We are not the broken person that they are.
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
