Tumbling, I agree with SS. Your H is reluctant to talk to you for a reason. Somehow he associates calling with something negative. Why? Have you had fights over the phone? Does he feel you'll make him feel guilty? Think about this. The whole texting thing is definitely getting old, but I would not pressure him to call. My recomm still is--wait to text back one or two days. Don't return some of the texts. Don't ask him to call. He will eventually call. Be patient.