Lois, You didn't blow the progress. It was very respectful of you to text him about the stand and tell him why you wanted to move it. I saw nothing wrong w/telling him where you where w/your daughter.
It was too many texts (over load) for him at one time. Unless something else comes up in the way of an emergency, stay still and don't text again. Allow him to come to you.
BTW, I'm happy to see your daughter skate. That's a major step for her.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
