Because stressors in the 40s are so common, it seems that it would be helpful for couples getting married (from people who are marrying them--priests, ministers, etc.) to learn about things that become challenging over time. Perhaps if MLC and midlife were discussed more, more marriages would last.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D