I agree turtlegirl I think he will see me "happy" and think she does not need me! He just left. He came by to get stuff for hunting trip for tommorrow I asked him yo stay for dinner, he did. Then we watched a tv show, we were alone he never said a word about us. Then said I guess I will go "home" get ready for bed. That hurt, he was home. Then he left, didn't try to hug or kiss me, just said talk to you later and left...
I feel you....Last time I saw H, he said " yeah I think i'm gonna go now" and...it hurt so bad. It's like we were never married... and he didn't appreciate me visiting him, trying to make him feel good ( although, i'm sure I didn't make him feel that good....) And then I felt sad, and looked sad..said something not so great...and he completely shut me off his life now. So..I'm glad you didn't make my mistake!